5 Things You Need to Know About Lack of Sex Drive in Males
December 27, 2008 A man’s diminished sex drive can be real poison in a relationship. If you’re the one with the sexual desire problem, you need to explore the possible causes. A visit to your doctor is a good way to start. Stress is also a major cause of sexual disinterest, so learn how to manage the stress in your life. Most important, reassure your partner that this isn’t about you losing interest in her. Depression, stress, poor sleep, anger, conflicts in a relationship, and infidelity are some of the more common reasons a man may lose his sex drive, at least temporarily. Many people are unaware of the possible effect of depression on sex drive, and this can cause strife in a relationship if the other person thinks that the depressed partner is attracted to another person or has lost interest in her. Among the physical illnesses that cause a loss of sex drive in men are diabetes, heart disease, chronic pain conditions, and Parkinson’s disease. In addition, some of the medications used to treat these conditions can further diminish libido (another name for sex drive) or cause a separate problem, erectile dysfunction. About 25% of men may have testosterone levels that are on the low side. Fortunately, this is insignificant for most men, and they have no symptoms associated with low testosterone. Overall, about 6% of men have testosterone levels that are low enough to cause symptoms. Loss of sex drive, erectile dysfunction, bone thinning, depression, lethargy, and physical decline are the most common symptoms of low testosterone. Testosterone replacement therapy is available and effective, but very few men are really candidates for it. Men are susceptible to several different, common sexual problems, but they have different causes and outcomes, and they are treated differently. It?s especially important to understand the difference between lack of libido and erectile dysfunction, or ED. Men with ED usually have a strong, undiminished sex drive. They have difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, however, because of circulatory or nerve problems. Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra are the drugs used most often to treat men with ED. Be aware that ED can be the first symptom of cardiovascular disease. Talk to your doctor about this. Men with a lack of libido may, in fact, be able to sustain a robust erection once aroused. For whatever reason, their sex drive is low. http://www.livestrong.com
1. Lack of Sex Drive Can be A Serious Relationship Issue
2. Psychological and Emotional Factors Can Cause Loss of Sex Drive in Men
3. Physical Illness Can Cause Diminished Sex Drive in Men
4. Low Testosterone Levels may be Responsible for Lack of Sex Drive in Men
5. It’s a Mistake to Confuse Lack of Sex Drive with Erectile Dysfunction
Facts on Masturbation
1. Nature Calls
Most boys begin to play with themselves very early and some begin masturbating before they even reach puberty. Girls, on the other hand, typically do not experiment with masturbation until they are taught or they read about it. Masturbation is a natural part of growing up and children should not be given erroneous information or old wives tales such as it will “make you go blind” or “stunt your growth.”
2. Finding Pleasure
Women began talking more about masturbation when the controversial book “The Feminine Mystique” by Betty Friedan came out in 1963, describing female pleasure and how to engage in it. Women were told they no longer needed men to support them or to satisfy them in bed. The G-spot was discussed and became a part of the fabric of the social experience known as the women’s movement. For most women, finding the G-spot may take experimentation and varying hand movements to explore different regions of the genitalia. Some women prefer a fast, even motion, while others can achieve orgasm by slow and steady movement over this area.
3. Give As You Get
Masturbation does not have to be practiced exclusively in private. It can be a great addition to a mutual sex encounter. Successfully masturbating your partner requires a level of intimacy that is often lacking in sexual intercourse. The participants should talk about what excites them and instruct each other in how best to perform the act. Everyone develops his or her own pace and style of masturbation and sharing that with a partner can bring a couple closer.
4. Slippery Slope
While masturbation can offer healthy release of anxiety, ease the pain of menstrual cramps and serve as a sleep aide, it can also turn into an a serious addiction. The release of endorphins associated with masturbation becomes a necessary part of the day when it is used as an escape, even after only a short time. Masturbation becomes a problem when it interferes with your life. Some 12-step programs are available for people with this sexual addiction and counseling can be helpful. The first step is to admit there is a problem and seek help.
5. Too Much of a Good Thing
Another drawback of excessive masturbation is that it can create a sexual dysfunction where it becomes difficult to achieve orgasm without the rapid stimulation derived from masturbation. While you may maintain an erection during intercourse or become lubricated enough for full penetration, climax can be difficult. A sexual partner may take it personally, thinking he or she is not good enough to bring you to orgasm.
Last Updated: April 15, 2008
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